Saturday, May 12, 2012

Relationship Reflection





First Picture is  my husband and me in a recent trip to Macchu Pichu, Peru.  We both enjoy traveling and that is one of the things we most love to do  together  in our relationship.  Every time we traveled we learned and growth tremendously.

Second Picture  and my son and me in his birthday.  I feel so proud of him.  I truly love everyone of his  birthdays.

Third Picture is my  little sister and me.  My relationship with her is very special.  My mom died when she was only 16 and she has stayed by my side since then.  I feel as  this is the treasure my mother inherit to me.

Relationships are vital in everyone’s life.  Relationships can make us strong or weak; can make us self-confident or low self-esteem.   People and the relationship you have with them make a significant influence in your life.  I have several people in my family that who I had a positive relationship and that influence my life in a positive way.  One of the most important relationships I ever had was the relation I had with my mother.  That relationship made me a strong, caring and willful woman.  Other key relationships were with my aunts I learned many things from them, and all my believes, moral and values come from them.  Unfortunately, my mom passed away 9 years ago, but I still feel that relationship and connection between us.

Currently I also have people in my life that support me and love me.  They are my husband, my son and my little sister.

Each one of them supports me in different ways.  They are always next to me when I am sad or troubled.  They listen to me when I have to make crucial decisions and help me understand things when I cannot see clear.


 Building relationships is not an easy task.  First of all you have to accept that we all are different and those we think differently.  We have to be respectful of the other ideas and believe, and you have to accept them and love them the way they are.

The special characteristics that I see in all the positive relationships that I ever had are that we truly care about each other.  Also, a sense of selfless we would do things to support or help each other without expecting anything back.

These relationships have impacted my whole life including as a professional.  I have become a caring and strong early childhood professional.  I am deeply involved in what I do and I always want to do better.  I do this job not because I need a paycheck I do this job because I care for the future of the children and our community.